Saturday, 4 February 2012
5 Signs He Is the Right One For You
Sign #1 He Is the Right One – You Respect One Another
When it comes to figuring out if he is the right one, respect should be at the top of the list. Respect is also something that should go both ways. He should respect you and you should respect him, in turn.
You can tell he respects you when:
- He is willing to compromise
- He listens to your concerns and feelings
- He notices when something is wrong and asks you about it
- He values your opinion
- He appreciates you
- He is genuinely happy for you when you succeed
Sign #2 He Is the Right One – He Has the Qualities You’re Looking For
Ideally, you should know ahead of time what qualities are important to you in a mate. Trying to figure it out after the fact can lead to serious problems. If you have a good idea of the qualities you are looking for—the ones that are the most important—it will help you determine if he is the right one.
It helps to write a list. Select at least 10 qualities you are looking for in a man. Put that list in the order of importance. Take a serious look at the list and cross off any qualities that aren’t so important. Some qualities are probably negotiable. If that is the case, they can likely be removed from the list. The idea is to get down to at least the top 5 non-negotiable qualities that you are looking for.
Sign #3 He Is the Right One – You Share the Same Values
What do you value most? What values make up the life you have chosen to live? These are important questions to ask yourself, as they will help determine if he is the right one for you. Values are usually in-line with those non-negotiable items that will give you a clue as to whether or not he is the right one. If you don’t share the same values, consider that to be a red flag.
Sign #4 He Is the Right One – Your Intuition Tells You
Your intuition—your gut—should never be ignored. At the same time, it should never be THE deciding factor. Your intuition should serve as a guide, something you rely on when considering whether or not he is the right one.
Intuition is more than just how physically attracted you are towards him. It goes beyond that to a place deep inside where you just seem to “know.” It’s usually just a sense or a feeling that this person is the right one.
Sign #5 He Is the Right One – You Can Be Yourself With Him
You will not be appreciated or valued by a man who tries to change you or who cannot love you, flaws and all. So if you can be who you are when you are with him, he might just be the right one for you. This means he not only accepts the good in you, but also your weaknesses and faults. When you can be yourself, you will experience a sense of freedom. You will have confidence in knowing that he accepts you just as you are.
When taking these 5 signs into consideration, you will have a good idea if he is actually the right guy for you.
Warning! 7 Lies All Women Tell Men
Let me start by being completely, um, honest. Every once in a while, we ladies have been known to play a little fast and loose with the truth around you guys. Believe me, we do it with the purest of intentions (really!). And rather than try to change us, your best bet—for keeping your woman happy and your sanity intact—is to simply recognize what’s going on and be smooth about it. With that in mind, here are seven lies we commonly tell men, and how to handle them. Just trust me on this stuff, OK?
1. “Give me your completely honest opinion…”
2. “I’m fine. Really.”
Hint: if there are tissues involved, she’s probably not fine.
3. “I’ve slept with X number of guys.”
Way to go, buddy! You picked the perfect shade for that wall.
4. “Yeah, that was GREAT. I totally got off.”
1. “Give me your completely honest opinion…”
Now would be a good time to fake a heart attack.
2. “I’m fine. Really.”
3. “I’ve slept with X number of guys.”
4. “Yeah, that was GREAT. I totally got off.”
“What is it, honey? I promise to work harder on my pecs!”
5. Oh my God, I LOVE sports!
Just in it for the buffalo wings, we’re guessing
6. “Sure, go out and have a guys’ night!”
Her worst nightmare: you having fun without her.
7. “I’ve never cheated on anyone.”
She’s not cheating. They’re just really good arm-wrestling buddies.
Friday, 3 February 2012
Brad and Angelina Cuddle and Laugh Through SAG Awards
Source http://goo.gl/GKUfV
Spencer Pratt Apology to Lauren Conrad Goes Ignored on Twitter
What is this, 2009?
Spencer Pratt tried to make amends with Lauren Conrad on her 26th birthday via Twitter Wednesday, but the fashion designer and former Hills star isn't listening.
"Lauren has moved past all the drama," a source close to LC says. "She's focusing on her career and barely has time to interact with the people she actually likes."
"Why would she want to back in touch with Spencer Pratt?"
A fair point. Why would anyone really?
The source close to Conrad adds that "in this case, like others, she's going to continue to do what works best with Spencer and that's obviously to ignore him."
The world has apparently followed suit in the past year and a half.
Pratt, meanwhile, is broke and living at home, but says he doesn't "have a hatchet to bury" with his former co-star, who he frequently butted heads with.
"We had our differences, but the fact is that Lauren was a part of our lives, both personally and professionally," Spencer Pratt tells Us, as if anyone cares.
"After all this time, what point would there be in being angry? All I wanted to do was wish her nothing but the best in everything she does."
Sadly, that totally heartfelt sentiment fell upon a deaf Twitter account.
Spencer Pratt tried to make amends with Lauren Conrad on her 26th birthday via Twitter Wednesday, but the fashion designer and former Hills star isn't listening.
"Lauren has moved past all the drama," a source close to LC says. "She's focusing on her career and barely has time to interact with the people she actually likes."
"Why would she want to back in touch with Spencer Pratt?"
A fair point. Why would anyone really?
The source close to Conrad adds that "in this case, like others, she's going to continue to do what works best with Spencer and that's obviously to ignore him."
The world has apparently followed suit in the past year and a half.
Pratt, meanwhile, is broke and living at home, but says he doesn't "have a hatchet to bury" with his former co-star, who he frequently butted heads with.
"We had our differences, but the fact is that Lauren was a part of our lives, both personally and professionally," Spencer Pratt tells Us, as if anyone cares.
"After all this time, what point would there be in being angry? All I wanted to do was wish her nothing but the best in everything she does."
Sadly, that totally heartfelt sentiment fell upon a deaf Twitter account.
Sunday, 29 January 2012
The Top 5 Traits Women Want in a Man
77%
1. Sense of Humor
Being able to laugh at the stresses of this world is a must, according to the women on our panel. You get bonus points if you can make them laugh. Humor tells a woman that you can laugh at—read, handle easily—the many difficulties that life throws at you.
55%
2. Intelligence
A worldy, interesting man is a man she likes to show off. Men who are take-charge problem solvers make women feel secure, and men who are always improving are never boring.
46%
3. Passion
Why have women always melted for musicians? Because rock stars are passionate in public. Women like displays of passion because they're not accustomed to seeing them from men. Get passionate about something: kayaking, impressionistic art, barbecuing, or Habitat for Humanity. It's proof that you care for and about something beyond yourself.
41%
4. Confidence
A man who feels secure in his own skin makes the woman he's with feel secure. By showing you can handle unfamiliar people or situations, you tell the woman in your life that she need not fear, either.
38%
5. Generosity
This is more important to women over 35 than it is to those under that age. Generosity, however, doesn't just mean springing for dinner at a four-star. Your willingness to give your time and lend your ear is what women crave.
1. Sense of Humor
Being able to laugh at the stresses of this world is a must, according to the women on our panel. You get bonus points if you can make them laugh. Humor tells a woman that you can laugh at—read, handle easily—the many difficulties that life throws at you.
55%
2. Intelligence
A worldy, interesting man is a man she likes to show off. Men who are take-charge problem solvers make women feel secure, and men who are always improving are never boring.
46%
3. Passion
Why have women always melted for musicians? Because rock stars are passionate in public. Women like displays of passion because they're not accustomed to seeing them from men. Get passionate about something: kayaking, impressionistic art, barbecuing, or Habitat for Humanity. It's proof that you care for and about something beyond yourself.
41%
4. Confidence
A man who feels secure in his own skin makes the woman he's with feel secure. By showing you can handle unfamiliar people or situations, you tell the woman in your life that she need not fear, either.
38%
5. Generosity
This is more important to women over 35 than it is to those under that age. Generosity, however, doesn't just mean springing for dinner at a four-star. Your willingness to give your time and lend your ear is what women crave.
Friday, 27 January 2012
Rihanna Goes Geek Chic at the Airport
Rihanna chose to ditch her usual sexy duds for a hipster look while walking through LAX, wearing thick black glasses, a Celine shirt and a black maxi skirt.
The Bajan pop princess paired her look with black open-toe sandals, gold necklaces and bracelets, a snake skin clutch and gold hoop earrings.
Jennifer Love Hewitt recently tweeted a photo of herself wearing similar glasses, as did Kim Kardashian, making it seem as though this may be a new trend sweeping the fashion world.
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